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Why Is Finding A Good Man So Hard For Single Women Over 35?

The tendency is pretty big to compare ourselves to other people’s experiences, and that’s easier than ever now that they post all about their lives online. Dating is a big part of many people’s online presence, and it’s pretty easy to get swept up in all the hype. First of all, the challenges that apply to dating now are much the same as the challenges that have always applied to the dating scene. The fact is that it can simply be a tough social situation. Dating can be pretty hard in general, and the individual challenges can be pretty unique to everyone.

Because the truth is that not only are there lots of good people left for you to date and fall in love with, anyone of them could be right for you and make you happy. If you’re a woman longing for a man because you think you should have been married by now, you’re causing yourself a lot of grief based on how you think you should be living your life. The good news is that you’re not alone in feeling like something is wrong in the dating pool. You can’t know where the love of your life is going to come from, so don’t limit yourself to the new old ways of finding love. Not only do lots of men frequent these kinds of events with friends and family, but a community event is a perfect backdrop for a love story. There are things we all wish we could change about ourselves, from our physical appearance to our personality, and sometimes the exact thing we need is a person to show us love, trust, and acceptance.

Well if women today were just like the old days, then many of us men would’ve been married already. Women unfortunately have really changed today from the old days when love was real easy to find back then, for those men that were really looking for it. I work out 4 times a week and climb mountains as a hobby – so I am definitely in shape. I’m not blaming anyone for anything – women certainly are under no obligation to accept me – and I am not entitled to anyone’s time or attention – nor anyone else to mine. No woman has ever given me a signal of any sort that she is interested and so it is clear that they aren’t interested in me. I will never initiate contact with any woman, no matter how attractive she may be – since rejection or worse would always be guaranteed.

You know, let me figure out this person a little bit more. Maybe this thing that I don’t like tonight might have just been because they’re nervous or excited. If you can learn to trust yourself and to trust your man, you will be giving both of you an amazing gift…one that will enhance the quality of your love, and of your life, in a way that will amaze you. Note that the definition doesn’t include anything about being perfect, infallible, never making an error in judgment, never having a bad or scared day, or never making a mistake. When a woman talks with me about trust issues with her man, or men in general, we often end up talking about the level of trust she has in herself. After all, you cannot give that which you do not have.

Therefore, the relationship needs of the men using this strategy may be less fulfilled in the long run. The men that I speak with lament about being in a “no-win situation” in modern dating. If they follow what society tells them to do, they often end up “good guys” who are taken advantage of, mistreated, and disrespected.

Now a great deal of these women today are very high maintenance, independent, since they really don’t need many of us men at all anyway. And they have really become so very selfish, greedy, spoiled, picky, narcissists, gold diggers, cheaters, and very money hungry now more than ever before. Very difficult for many of us men trying to find real love today, now that they really have changed from the old days unfortunately. Too bad many of us men weren’t born in the old days since it wasn’t all about money at that time, unlike today most women do want men with a lot of money. As you can see a very big change in the women now, and they’re very much too blame why so many of us good single men can’t find love today even when we really try. OkCupid has been the best site, in that the people I’ve met from there have mostly been polite, and fun to talk with, but aside from a few second dates, nothing goes anywhere.


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